Making Mud Pies

Lord, I am so unworthy.

     Just the other night I was talking about expectations. About how I have them and you exceed them time and time again. And it's funny to think how I'm so content with such small things. C.S. Lewis puts it in this way: “It would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased.” -C.S. Lewis

     I feel like I relate so well to that child making mud pies in the slum. I think that that's as good as it gets and I cannot even fathom a better life apart from it, because it's all that my human mind knows. But once God reveals to me the smallest taste of His goodness, I go mad! I just need to have more. It's like when you give a child a small sample of ice cream. They just keep asking for more. They’ve tasted this wonderful creation that we call ice cream, and they want more of where that came from!

     So where I'm going with this is that I was feeling pretty content the other night. I had experienced a great night with my roommate and I was very thankful that God had allowed that to happen. But there I was, just making my mud pies and not even realizing it. Yes, it was a phenomenal night and something to definitely praise God for, but it didn't mean I should only be okay with that. It didn’t mean that I had experienced all of the goodness that God had to offer.

     The reason that I am going to go into specific details about my day on Thursday is because I am just so amazed at how God perfectly orchestrates our lives in order to make His plans prevail. And that’s exactly what happened with my day on Thursday. God had rearranged my plans so that His could work together for my good.

     On Thursdays before Cru, I usually volunteer from 6-8 at Miracle Sports. But for a number of reasons, I decided it would be best not to go this week. Instead, my friend Jody called and asked if I would help with the Cru set up this week. I agreed and was excited to be of use. After I got out of my last class at 4:50, I grabbed something to eat really quick and received a call from Jody. “Christina, can I ask you for another huge favor?!” If you know Jody, there’s a sense of urgency in everything she does, so although she sounded somewhat stressed, I wasn’t too worried. “Can you print the chord chards for the worship this week?” I was passing by Stroz anyway on the way to setup, so I had no problem helping her out. I printed everything out and got to the auditorium at 5 to help finish set up. By the time all of that was done, it was about 6:30 and I headed back to my room to shower.

      I had also agreed to help greet that night (another reason why I had wanted to skip Miracle Sports) so the plan was to leave my room by 7:45 the latest so that way I’d be there in time to open the doors. Well… that didn’t happen. I left my room at 7:55 and the meeting starts at 8. To be honest, I’m usually much later than that, but since I had told someone I would help them with something, I felt bad being late and I began my “power walk” to Moore. About half way there, I ran into my roommate. She was coming back from a meeting and asked me where I was heading to. Not even thinking twice, I said “Cru, wanna come?” Without even pausing to think about it, she agreed and before I knew it, the two of us were both power walking to the Cru main meeting.

The whole way over there, I was playing it cool meanwhile my thoughts went something like this: Did that really just happen?! God are you serious?? No way. No way. This isn’t happening. No way.

     I was in complete shock.

     When we got there Ramey helped me greet everyone and I couldn’t contain my excitement when friends of mine came up to her and greeted her with big hugs. (Ramey hates to be touched). We picked a row somewhere in the middle and while we waited for it to start, I assured Ramey that if she was uncomfortable, she could leave whenever she wanted and that I wouldn’t be offended.  

 Then the meeting started. This was it, no turning back. God’s work would be done.

     The band began to play and the people began to worship. I stood and so did Ramey. I took the first song to thank God for Ramey and letting me live with her and be her friend. What used to feel like a forced living situation now felt like a blessing and something that I couldn’t thank God enough for. I thanked God for his perfect timing and for hearing my prayers. I thanked Him for His faithfulness and bringing Ramey to a Cru meeting, which is something that I had been asking for since last semester. The first song finished and the next song started playing.

     I began to sing the words to God. As I listened to the words, I felt like they matched the desires of my heart but I wondered if they were what was on Ramey’s heart too.

     I feel like prayer is so essential in order for God to work in our lives. It’s like the “okay” button if you will, the confirmation that lets him know that we are on board with Him changing our plans and invading our lives. But without prayer, without us talking to God and letting Him know that we are okay with His intervention, I believe that it severely limits His work in our lives. So when I was singing those words and allowing God to do all of those things in my life, allowing Him to draw me closer to Him and experience His love, I thought that I should do the same for Ramey. Putting aside all of my own desires to know God, it became about Ramey knowing God. I remember standing there next to her, and with everything just crying those words out to God. 

“Your love has ravished her heart and taken her over, taken her over.

And all I want is for her to be, with you forever, with you forever.

So pull her a little closer

Take her a little deeper
She wants to know your heart
She wants to know your heart
‘Cause your love is so much sweeter than anything she’s tasted
She wants to know your heart

Whoa, Whoa, how GREAT your love is for HER,

Whoa, Whoa, how great is your love”

     God, please reveal your love to Ramey! God please show her how much you love her!

      After how perfectly he had planned for her to come to Cru that night, there was no doubt that God was thinking about her.That God cares for her and is pursuing her. That God wants His daughter to come home and to be with him.

     The rest of the night was an emotional experience to say the least. Drew’s talk completely touched me and assured me that God has purpose in my suffering. That everything I’ve gone through and am going through is not unreachable for His understanding and is useable for His Kingdom’s glory. Not only was the meeting one of the best I have ever been to, but I left feeling overwhelmed by how God hears my prayers and loves me personally and completely.

     I am completely confident that God loves Ramey and that He is radically changing and invading her life. If He wasn’t, she wouldn’t have come that night. But there’s something in all of us that wants to know this almighty God… We were made for it. There’s no denying that when we are standing in the midst of a beautiful sunset, something just takes our breath away and in that moment, we realize that we are incredibly small. This deep longing is in all of us and is what makes us feel at times that we aren’t made for this world, because we’re not. We are made for a person and a place. That person is God ,our Father, and that home that we feel so homesick for while here on earth is heaven.